Being rude has a spectrum of degrees. From indifference or ignorance to polite manners... to being crude and obnoxious. Perception is a large part of determineing what us considered rude. Some people are easily offended by the slightest smallest inclination of rudeness. Others are more inclinded to easily disregard, and ignore rudeness... let it go and move on. Some things are beyond change and not worth the effort to try.
We've all lived with our perception if what we consider rude all our lives.
Today, with the current social atmosphere, the definition and perception of rude has heightened the degree or sensitivity , or the slightest hint of rudeness is considered monumental. The expanded definition now includes any thing that does not coincide with their beliefs or perspective of how life should be. If there is a policy that doesn't agree with someone's beliefs... than its rude. If a boss councils an employee for something they are not doing right... It's considered rude. Basically, young people today consider anything not to their liking rude. If a teacher doesn't cuddle a student with kit gloves and says their assignment is late, incomplete, or didn't follow instructions... then its rude.
Todays kids are over sensitive and take offense to everything... yet it's okay for them to be rude to others in the same manner that they would consider rude to themselves. That's todays world. It's a self made life of anxiety fueled by their feeling that everything is rude... and not being able to let anything go.
For my grandkids... Why do you let so many things bother you so much? Even when it doesn't directly affect you?
We've all lived with our perception if what we consider rude all our lives.
Today, with the current social atmosphere, the definition and perception of rude has heightened the degree or sensitivity , or the slightest hint of rudeness is considered monumental. The expanded definition now includes any thing that does not coincide with their beliefs or perspective of how life should be. If there is a policy that doesn't agree with someone's beliefs... than its rude. If a boss councils an employee for something they are not doing right... It's considered rude. Basically, young people today consider anything not to their liking rude. If a teacher doesn't cuddle a student with kit gloves and says their assignment is late, incomplete, or didn't follow instructions... then its rude.
Todays kids are over sensitive and take offense to everything... yet it's okay for them to be rude to others in the same manner that they would consider rude to themselves. That's todays world. It's a self made life of anxiety fueled by their feeling that everything is rude... and not being able to let anything go.
For my grandkids... Why do you let so many things bother you so much? Even when it doesn't directly affect you?
