The Holidays and reflections … thinking back, and thinking ahead.
Thanksgiving has come and gone… Christmas is barely past… we reflect on the past year…and start looking for the New Year. So with a clear mind I reflect on Thanksgiving with family… Christmas with friends and coworkers… and have warm thoughts of time shared with family and friends. Thoughts of our rving friends that somewhat scattered all over the country and how nice it would be to see them all again.
First and foremost… the past year… well, lets get the negative out of the way first. Things that needed to be much better, but were not… and for the oblivious reasons. Politics, nuff said about that. Economy, worse then we think. Personal economics, everything going up by leaps and bounds… and yes, don’t kid yourself… the poor are getting poorer and the once middle income folks are quickly becoming poor. Oh… and the rich, well, their grabbing all they can… and getting richer. Some honestly… some not. Travel, somewhat slowed with the elimination of luxury spending. Outlook, grim… ya do what you have to do and make harder choices limiting or eliminating things that were once part of your everyday life. Armageddon, well… at several points in my lifetime, at least six different ones, the world was coming to an end…. so 12-21-2012 does raise such an alarm… but don’t worry… there will be more predictions of doom as the latest one goes unfulfilled. Just a sideline thought… BIG Business. Well there’s Walmart ( sneaking in a positive) that seems to be a economic positive for the populous at large. Anything you want at a “value” price… certainly seems to be doing right by the people and keeping other businesses honest as far as prices, so to speak. Gasoline and Oil companies… well… there’s the opposite end of the spectrum… politics, greed, corruption, and the source for all economic evils… and that’s putting it mildly. Another quick thought… when the price of a barrel of oil was $80 the price of gasoline was $1.35… then oil prices went up, gas went up… now oil of back down to less then $100 a barrel (that would be a 20% increase)… but gas is still more then twice the price that it once was. Oil company exec’s rake in billions in company profits… and millions in personal bonuses for a job well done in running the company more profitably… can yall spell MONOPLY… that’s not only tolerated and condoned by politics, but orchestrated through political corruption. Health care, medications, and insurance follows a close second to creating economic woos. Do you know why it’s illegal to buy prescription medications out of this country? Well here’s a clue. The same medication, made by the same company… here in the states via my Rx plan that pays 90% of the cost, my Rx costs me $24… the same exact Rx, made by the same company in the companies original packaging cost $15 just across the border… just plain cash… so what is majorly wrong with this picture. You’d actually think that with the economic downturn that we are in, that the greed and politics would at least slow up and not be so oblivious… but they have actually gotten worse… stealing more then they ever did before.
So, negatives out of the way… now how about the positives.
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Got you thinking… thought so! Well, there’s lots of positives despite all the negatives. From a light hearted humorous side… (which is sadly not true for everyone)… we still have a place to live (okay… we’re in an Rv… but that was by choice)… so we are legally and technically “homeless”. We still eat… and sometimes have meat more then once a week (hotdogs don’t count). We still can keep warm in the winter with extra clothes. Electric… well, that’s pretty much a necessity right after food (just turn it off when not in use). We have music to comfort us, television and movies to entertain us, computers to communicate, and sometimes find a cashew mixed in with our peanuts at is now only10% premium nuts. We have our health… so long as we don’t get sick. We have friends that we can still talk to anytime via cell phones and the internet. Ah… the internet… the ability to communicate instantly with family, friends, or the masses as a whole. And as indicated above… Thank God for Walmart, which seems to be the only BIG business that is not price gouging the people…. and serves the free enterprise system to keep all other business from unfair or elevated pricing practices. Technology… now here’s a great convenience and savings… for me… the big savings is in photography… no film to buy, no processing, no printing, no storage issues, no lost of faded photos, and no more expensive (in both time and money) albums to put together and organize… now a pleasant and cheap hobby. No more prepaid phone cards and looking for a payphone (do they still exist?).
Words of Wisdom… or maybe just my way of thinking.
Okay… so much for material things. I have my wonderful wife that keeps me not only centered, but inspired. She also has the ability to make my day perfect just by smiling. Nothing seems too bad when I’m with her.
Religion, now there’s something that most people use to can lift their spirits and give them an emotional hope and faith… I won’t go into this any further.
Family and friends are comforting during stressful times and make the good times even better. If you are down.. it’s like the old saying… “misery loves company” …but look at it this way… yall can comfort, console and encourage each other… works better than you might think! Give it a honest try… works wonders.
Escapes: My favorite… take the Rv to Orlando, either work for Disney or buy a season pass, and go in the parks for a daily dose of Magical Moments and make believe. Works wonders to forget all about the real world every once in a while. The more you can stop thinking about the real world… well… this falls into the category of …. the Happier you will be!
If you need to pay someone (especially for repeated sessions) to listen to your problems and offer possible solutions that usually don’t work… just get some more friends… their free and probably have better real solutions… but then that would be called advise… and we know that that good advise is usually not taken… so you’re right back where you started, but no worse off… and a few more bucks in your pocket.
Time and Money… if ya ain’t got the money…then by all means… take the time to slow down and smell the roses… take a photo or two while you are there… it’s good for the soul. Time with family and friends is an excellent use of “slowing down to smell the roses” time.
I may add to this later… or continue as another entry… either way… it’s nap time. By the way… a nap or two doesn’t hurt anything either. It’s another mini escape.
Everything is what you make of it. Look for the good… and warm content feelings will follow.
If you don’t like being in the rain (or whatever situation you are in)… get out of it…. or at least pretend to be a duck until you do.
Everything …”It is what it is”… while you’re in it, or until you make something different of it.
oh… forgot all about New Years Resolutions… how did I do with last years? and what will the New Year see? Well… that’s the next entry.
Yall have a safe and Happy New Years!